So called surprise party

First of all, Alhamdulillah dengan rezeki Allah bagi, Berjaya jugak surprise party ni diadakan untuk saya. Hehehe, saya yang mintak sebenarnye. Mase kat Manipal dulu, kami selalu celebrate birthday party sama, tp bile balik Malaysia ni cam kureng siket, maybe masing2 sibok ngan hal sendiri.. I don't remember bile I start buat keje2 mempalsukan my birth date, rasenye kat Manipal da start kot, tp semua org ingat je. Bile balik Malaysia ni, semua orang pon tak ingat dan konfius sbb byk sgt my birth date, huhu. Ade yang merajuk2 lak tu.. takleh blah. Xpe2, saya bukan penting sgt…

Since tak ramai org wish my befday, conlict jugak, nak senyap je ke or spread. Orang lain diam je, so I diam jelah. Takpela, befday je pon bukannya ape2. Single lg (xde kaitan). Tp, that night Banji msg me, so I sesaje la asking for a surprise party. Next day, Jelita said Banji ingat Jelita yg nak buat party, so less likely tuk ade party, but I still hope there will be, at least at home (x malu) Actually, malam 16/6 tu mase Ana ajak makan roti nan kat Park Putra, I thought there'll be a surprise party memandangkan mereka sungguh2 gi tempah food pada waktu petang, koya sungguh diriku. Rupenye, makan sesaja becoz when I went there the previous night it was closed. I'm thinking of disclose my birthdate, dalam hati pk lagi, penting ke2? X kot.

So, when my housemate ajak makan malam kat Tom Yam classic, don't feel like going, until I received a call revealed that there'll be a party for me. It's no surprise party anymore. But, ceh.. there goes my plan. Silap betul la organizers ni… isyyy.. nak marah betul, sampai rase tanak pegi. But, since I asked for the party and now it is hold for me, so the feeling of going force me to go, and I really appreciate it, nice but bongok nye aku. How come I be that 'not sporting'. Cis cis cis,, marah saya pd diri sendiri.

Sebenarnya saya sangat seronok dan appreciated ape yang korang2 smua buat malam ni. Orang cakap, kite tend to appreciate apa yang kita mintak dan kita nak, dengan sangkaan benda tuh la yang terbaik buat kita. Sedangkan kita lupa, kita hanyalah pelakon di atas pentas dunia ni, mengikut skrip yang telah diberi oleh director. My mean, hidup kite ni mmg da ditetapkan, walaupun kita ada pilihan dan mmg kita perlu memilih pon, tapi kita tak mampu nak bagi apa yang kita nak pada kita. Allah tu bersifat ikut suka hati Dia. Suka hati Dial ah nak bagi kau apa.

Sampai sekarang saya masih mencari jawapan why I got this thing. As far as I remember, I never asked for it,maybe indirectly I asked, sbb tuh orang kate doa tu kene hati2 jugak, bukan boleh main mintak je. Until now I have to go on live with it. It's been so long oredi. I think I used to it, so I brought myself to realize that This WORLD is not mine, not everything I asked for will be granted and that I shudn't bother for something that is not mine.

Morale, bersyukurlah dengan apa yang ada for Allah knows best.

10q again for those yang menjayakan befday party ni. I'm so Happy and I'm so sorry. 10q gak kat Sumayyah yang datang jauh dari Jasin, bringing very beautiful words for me..

Skirt Oleen bagi siang td. Actually, I asked for the blouse of the same pattern, but I got the skirt. Bukankah itu lebih baik, kalau blouse mungkin tak boleh pakai casually camni, kang kalah lak datin. And, everybody puji the skirt is beautiful. 10q Oleen and Jul (kot)

10q kerana sudi mengadakan surprise party tuk saya

.Awat muka sedih je? Fizo x datang... euwww!!!

Befday2 Tengku

26/11/2008
7.00pm

2 3 hari sebelum befday nya, Tengku sibok dok cakap kat saya befday die 26/11. Pada 26/11 tu, of course I've forgotten, but she reminded me again, ingat nak buat bodoh jer. Just wish happy befday, okla tuh. Bila balik kelas petang, I told Kauthar "today's Tengku's befday".
"Let's go buy cake"She said. Really??? Malasnya. Tapi pegila jugak membeli kek di Italy Bakery.

The first photo was taken without befday gal. Saje nak amek gamba gadis melayu bersama cake sahaja. It took place in TasTas's room, sebab plg depan. After that, kami nak bawak kek tuh gi bilik Tengku, sekali terserempak b4 sampai bilik nya.. Haha.Nasib baik Kauthar yang bawak kek tuh tak terlambung ke muka Tengku. 2nd and 3rd pictures are the events occur. Tah apelah jadahnya kami gi letak kek atas iron board, padahal lantai tu luas, siap karpet lg. Semua orang pon tak perasan, bile nak makan. " Eh apesal kite makan berdiri?"
4th photo, befday gal comot, saya la yang buat tuh.. haha

So, penah sekali saya terdengar member2 cakap, celebrate befday ialah HARAM, sebab menyamai ratu ape tah, tiup2 lilin, pastu orang datang wish2 kepadanya. (kisah dolu2 la nih, zaman bila pon tak pasti)

Ni yang saya dapat daripada http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Satellite?pagename=IslamOnline-English-Ask_Scholar/FatwaE/FatwaE&cid=1218386145936

The eminent Muslim scholar Sheikh `Abdel Khaliq Hasan Ash-Shareef, a renowned scholar and d a`iyah, stated,

In fact, Prophet Muhammad's (peace and blessings be upon him) hadith in which he said that Allah Almighty replaced the pre-Islamic celebrations with `Eid Al-Fitr and `Eid Al-Adha for Muslims means that in the pre-Islamic era people used to worship their gods in their celebrations, but Muslims should adhere to their two `Eids and worship Allah therein.

Also, the Prophet's (peace and blessings be upon him) hadith that asserts that whoever imitates others (non-Muslims) will be with them in the Hereafter applies to imitating them in what constitutes disbelief.

Given the above, I see that celebrating birthdays are social, not religious occasions. This issue does not deserve such a big fuss. If children or parents wish to celebrate specific occasions (such as birthdays and weddings), it is OK.

All in all, I do recommend that parents make use of such occasions to implant Islamic ethics in the hearts of their young ones. For example, in the occasion of birthdays, they could remind their kids of Allah's favors and how we should be grateful to Him.

As for the issue of candles and the like, they are not big issues to make Shari`ah ruling on them. So, let's not build Shari`ah rulings on such minor issues.

Kesimpulannya, dulu Rasulullah cume sambut kedua2 hari raya. Tapi sape2 nak celebrate befday masing2 OK je, cume janganla berlebih2an, dan bersyukurlah atas nikmat usia yang Allah berikan. Gunakan sebaik2 nya untuk beribadah padaNya. Dan ingatlah, semakin meningkat umur kita, semakin dekat kita dengan kematian (not always follow the rules)